Second Chances

What if there were no second chances given? You would have one shot and one shot only. Would it make the situation easier or difficult?

         
Danielle Ingrum once said, “Give it all you’ve got because you never know if there’s going to be a next time.” There’s a time in ones life where second chances don’t happen, they only have one chance to overcome the situation and hope for the best and if all else fails, it sticks with the person and deals with the consequences. In my eyes, everyone deserves a second chance. When talking about relationships: they come and go, break ups and make ups, and for some than others always seem to turn back. That first phase of a relationship where everything is beautiful: every conversation is a laugh, a smile, the other persons smell becomes intriguing, every touch becomes an exhilarating feeling through out the body, leaving the person breathless. But unfortunately everything comes to an end. That first chance of love doesn’t always last. The pain is there but gradually fades away. Is their a second chance to love? We are human and it’s in are nature to go back and feel what’s right, giving another chance to start new, start fresh and become aware of the situation.

A second chance can reunite people and friendships. Troubled situations cause conflicts within people and aren’t able to cope with, and by giving another try, it could loosen the tension of the situation. First time tries are always intimidating, the first day on the job and first impressions become pressuring. It’s the first try to get the task done and hope to get it right. The pressures in life become difficult to cope with, wanting things too be perfect and get it right the first time.

Whether the confrontation between friends, coworkers‘, relationships and family, comes a point where theirs one chance to make things right because their might not be another time. Relationships come and go, and when given a second chance, it’s worth the while trying to make everything better again and create a new bond between two people. Just as friendships, meeting people throughout life and knowing every detail about that person; getting to know somebody isn’t a job, but a chance to meet someone new and keep a special place in one’s heart. But of course, every friendship isn’t perfect. Their are flaws in every aspect of any type of relationship, and that first encounter of a bond from someone else can make a big impact on ones life; not knowing when death will come and conflicting with companions can make a person realize that’s theirs precious time to not be wasted and their might not be another time of companionship.

Life is short. There are opportunities in life where they may not be established. But giving it another try or doing the best that there can be, may resolve into something good. Or maybe, just maybe a life changing experience.